Are you the real you or just pretending to be the real you?

screech...Speed breaker ahead go slow.lol.Yes we do have speed breakers in each and every corner of an avenue.Of course we do need to have sped breakers in our lives too.May be to slow down our sped and really we will surely check out were we really are and are we going in the destined direction correctly.May be or may be not,who knows.Lets not discuss who created the speed breakers loll and why need speed barriers.

Everyone,every jack and Jane in this world need to travel in the exact pace in the exact direction.rofl.I know i don't make any relevance to the topic of discussion.because if i am going to ask that question to me or jack or jane they gonna say a big yes.And u bet u guys the answer is a big no.Now you may ask why should we pretend,that's a very obvious question.I know that,still if we gonna answer that question there is no need of discussion on this topic.

Let me narrate a personal experience.A guy and a girl.Ya that's right and obvious.The exact mix match of hormones occurred for that guy.Butterflies all around.So called Love blossomed from nowhere.Again there is a worst combination of hormones takes place inside the guys body and gives birth to a heart.And that heart is filled with that gal only about her.In the process of battle between hormones and brain,the hormones takes over the brain.Here is the twist in the tale.The guy tries to woo the gal in the process he tries to be compatible with the gal and i know you guys can easily understand what it is all about and what all happened thus by making my work simple by not typing all crap done in name of love...

Now i have a point to discuss why we lose our true identity.Its for the sake of our hormonal imbalance.I don't want it to be more complex.And in this case if he had made his own concept or philosophies straight and flat this could have been avoided.
We always try to imitate the people we are impressed with.Be it our stars or mom and dad.When we are strong in our own values and virtues we need not compromise for the sake of our hormonal pleasure.
Insecurity.......This term really made me to think about alot of things.We feel insecure only when we are not ble to open up ourselves.Even i had this problem of insecurity and it took me lot of research,thinking process and finally found a solution for it.Why should i open up myself?Instead we are the best judge and critic of our own self and I am sure that we can find a answer for our own slf.And you know we do that with atmost care because who cares about us more than ourselves.loll The answer was quiet simple but the time and pain i took to understand it was really really long.
We do often feel the person we like genuinely is not reciprocating to us properly.And again the solution was very very simple.I slightly modified my first solution.Just slow down,go back maintain a feet gap,that will really help us.
i make it really simple fuck ppl who really tries to fuck u.
as i always say i have a poor choice of words and i feel that in this personal space i can voice my opinion without giving any shit about any ass oles on the street.